Connection First: Why I Don’t Just Say Yes to Everybody 10/28/25

People ask me why I don’t say yes to every request that hits my inbox. Why I don’t jump straight into fetish bookings or respond to every little ask.

Simple.
Not everybody gets access to me.

What I offer isn’t just bodywork. It’s not just massage. It’s presence.
It’s regulation. It’s real.

I read energy. I hold space. I bring people back to themselves.
That’s not something I take lightly.

That’s why I start with connection.
Not because I’m being difficult. Not to waste your time.
But because the energy has to be right first or the session won’t flow.

I can feel the difference between someone who’s curious, open, and present…
and someone who’s just here to check off a box or push a boundary.

If you’re looking for release without respect, I’m not your girl.
If you’re looking for something deeper, something grounding, something true —
you’ll feel it the moment we meet.

That’s why we begin with a connection session.
That’s how I set the tone.
That’s how I protect the quality of what I offer and the energy I pour into it.

There’s only one me.
And I know what my presence is worth.

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